The Renewed Collective
A private retreat for men rebuilding life after divorce
Rochester, NY
September 23 - 27, 2026
The Renewed Collective
A private retreat for men rebuilding life after divorce
Rochester, NY
September 23 - 27, 2026
A private retreat for men rebuilding life after divorce
Rochester, NY
September 23 - 27, 2026
A private retreat for men rebuilding life after divorce
Rochester, NY
September 23 - 27, 2026
The house is different.
The routines are different.
The quiet is different.
There are days you’re moving forward.
Working. Showing up. Handling what needs to be handled.
And then there are moments when it hits you:
This isn’t the life I planned.
This isn’t who I thought I’d be.
I don’t even know what normal looks like anymore.
Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship.
It’s the loss of a structure.
A role.
A future you thought was set.
And most men are expected to just… keep going.
You miss your kids when they’re not with you.
The weekends without them feel heavier than you expected.
You're tired of showing up to an empty home after work.
The silence isn't what you anticipated it to be like.
You’re doing your best to stay strong, but the quiet gives your mind too much space.
You’re trying to figure out:
You’re functioning.
But underneath, you don’t feel settled.
The reality is that divorce doesn’t just change your life.
It changes your nervous system.
Your identity.
Your sense of direction.
You’re in a transition.
The version of you that feels calm, confident, and grounded isn’t gone.
He’s just buried under stress, uncertainty, and the pressure to figure everything out alone.
When your system slows down, something powerful happens:
The constant tension eases.
Your thinking clears.
Your confidence comes back online.
You stop just surviving the change.
You start rebuilding your life inside it.
September 23 - 27, 2026 • Rochester, NY
The Renewed Collective is a space for men rebuilding life after divorce, men whose world has changed, whose roles have shifted, and who are ready to find their footing again.
Across 4 intentional days together, you’ll step out of the pressure, the noise, and the constant need to “just keep going,” so you can slow down, settle your system, and reconnect with a steadier sense of direction.
This isn’t a bootcamp or a spiritual escape. It’s a reset, structured, grounded, and designed to help you return home with energy that lasts.
Because after divorce, what most men need isn’t motivation.
They need to feel steady again.
The space to step out of the pressure, the noise, and the self-criticism that often follows divorce, so you can reconnect with who you are now and begin moving forward with clarity and direction.
A deeper understanding of what’s been driving the tension, disconnection, or uncertainty you’ve been carrying, so you can stop operating in reaction to the past and start building your life with intention.
A reset of your internal baseline, helping your nervous system settle so you can think clearly, respond calmly, and move through your days with steadiness and confidence.
You’ll leave with a simple, practical framework you can use immediately, tools and structure to support you as you rebuild your routines, your relationships, and your life in a way that feels grounded, meaningful, and truly your own.
Learn how to quiet mental static and create space for real decisions.
Through neuroscience-inspired practices, you’ll understand how your thoughts and body work together to shape focus, calm, and momentum.
Experience breathwork, reflection, and guided conversations that reconnect you to yourself, while forming bonds with men who understand the pressure of carrying so much alone.
Leave with practical systems to keep your clarity alive once you’re home, habits, frameworks, and the discipline to lead without constant strain.
Every part of The Renewed Collective, from the environment to the exercises, is designed to do one thing: help you reset from the inside out.
By the time you leave you’ll see the same world through a steadier lens, calm, focused, and confident in your next steps.

Lasting transformation doesn’t come from willpower or resolutions — it comes from learning how your brain and body actually work so you can change your state on command.
Reset and shift from stress into calm clarity — so you can think clearly, feel grounded, and lead yourself with intention.
You'll learn how to:


Divorce can be isolating. At The Renewed Collective, that changes.
You’ll experience what it feels like to be seen, supported, and understood by men who get it, because they're on a similar path.
The Rochester area is known for it's fall foliage and beautiful trails. This connection makes it easier to release stress, reconnect with yourself, and step back into the world with clarity and strength.


All-inclusive lodging with shared and private rooms at the luxurious Airbnb.
Balance, nutrient-rich meals designed to keep you energized, clear, and grounded. Food is part of the experience, intentional, simple, satisfying.
Everything is handled for you; lodging, meals, transportation within the area, so the only thing you need to manage is showing up.
You’ve put your time and energy into work, responsibilities, and taking care of what mattered.
This is the investment in yourself, the space to reset, get steady, and rebuild your life with clarity and intention.
Because moving forward after divorce doesn’t come from pushing harder.
It comes from giving yourself the space to reset and start again.
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